Then there are others, who are intrigued by the concept, but just aren't sure if they want to be part of it. That is acceptable. I have no quibble with someone who wants to make sure they want to be a part of the Citadel. After all, committing to live in the Citadel is committing to a big chunk of responsibility. Some people can't commit to one person, let alone 3500 families. It's good they work it out before hand.
Then there are people within the III whom I call fair weather Patriots.